Frequently Asked Questions

Logistics

  • No DMs — email only

  • No refunds — all sales final

  • 1–2 reschedules max · 24hr notice required

  • 72hr response time Mon–Thu

  • Sessions via Zoom — recorded & shared

  • Quiet private environment required

  • 15 min late without notice = no-show

  • No-shows forfeited, non-refundable

  • Chronic health: may reschedule last minute

  • Recording consent checkbox in Acuity

Values & Boundaries

  • Kink & sex positive space

  • No sexual conduct with clients

  • No cancel culture — grace & repair

  • Bigotry = session ends, payment donated to queer org

  • Zero tolerance for abusive behavior

  • No explanation required for declining clients

  • Money does not buy bad behavior here

  • Cannot support active substance abuse

  • Cannot support active mental health crisis

  • Crisis resources listed in full policies

Sacred Agreements

What we commit to, together

  • Love is at the core

  • Privacy and trust are sacred

  • Come as you are — no rehearsing, no masking

  • Emotions are welcome — this is not therapy but vulnerability is honored

  • We see each other generously — grace for mistakes

  • Never assume — always ask pronouns and gender

  • This is a safer space — not a perfect one. Rupture may arise

  • Boundaries are honored. Nos are respected

  • Radical responsibility — speak up, take the space you need

  • Empathy is the practice

  • All are welcome here. Hate is not

  • An open mind is required. Leave your cynicism at the door

  • I honor your courage in being here